|The push pedal tractors were a huge hit with the boys!|
I didn't like who I was in Florida that much. Most of our time there, I was rather depressed. I relish the opportunity for a fresh start, to be a new me, the real me.
I have a method of making new friends down pat at this point. Googling local mommy groups, Meetup, Big Tent, volunteer work, PTA/PTOs, Gymboree Play & Music classes are all great resources for meeting people. In fact, my treasured Florida friend and I met at Gymboree. Well, actually, we met after dropping our older ones off at a Gymboree sports class, walking our younger ones down the shopping center to a little consignment shop, then (I promise I wasn't stalking you J!) heading in to a coffee shop, where we ended up talking and were blown away by our similarities. Our sons are both around the same age. We were both new to the area. Her family is Jewish, as are my husband and sons. We enjoy running and working out, although neither of us is in the shape that we currently wish to be in. In short, she is awesome and it's a situation that I don't know if I'll ever replicate. But I'll try.
|Barns and gardens galore|
I've been making sure that I've been proactive in forging relationships out here. I invited a mom whose company I enjoyed to a gem of an attraction in our town called Deanna Rose Childrens Farmstead earlier this week. I'm having difficulty uploading pictures of the fun time we had there, but I've included a couple pictures straight from the web site. Another mom asked us to lunch after a Music with Mar class. As we drove there in our separate minivans, her daughter asked, "Mom, where's my boyfriends?" :) Apparently, she'd never said such a thing. Supercute.
Here's a challenge for you: the next time you are somewhere other moms congregate (the park, a museum, your child's school), start a conversation with a mom you don't know. If you hit it off, whip out your phone and add their phone number and email to your contacts. Be like me, if you're the forgetful type, and add their kiddos' names and a description of where you were when you met them to the notes. Are you part of a MOMS Club or other playgroup? Give them that information! Be welcoming. Be kind. A simple hello may turn into a lifelong friendship. I love you J - thank you for teaching me so much about friendship! And for introducing me to K - I want to be 60-something years old and still doing girls' weekends!
|An old-fashioned General Store|